Iβm not really certain which is more tragic: loving someone who does not love you back or loving someone but not loving yourself.
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Iβm not really certain which is more tragic: loving someone who does not love you back or loving someone but not loving yourself.
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The second is by far the worst.
Thanks for sharing.
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You’re welcome. π Thank you for reading. π
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Beautiful thought. Both are equally tragic but the latter is more. ππππ
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Happy New Year!
In thinking further on this thought … what’s sad to me is someone who does not love themselves, fails to see a deeper love another has for them, and thus is incapable of reciprocating.
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Very thought provoking. I will think about this and comment more thoroughly later.
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I have thought about this and loving yourself is critical to having a relationship. It seems to me that without that any relationship will be one sided. Initially other people take you at your own evaluation. I also think that if you don’t love yourself you end up in a one sided relationships leading to abuse. It’s women who have no self worth who end up being abused and stay in it. (too much?).
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Very true. π Thank you for sharing you thoughts. β€β€β€
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Definitely the second. If you love yourself you have hope of finding someone else who does also. If you don’t you never will.
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I say not loving yourself, cause you can’t control someone else’s feelings towards you, but you should be able to “control” yours. “I must learn to love myself before I ask others to love me”.
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So much beauty in such a short sentence πβ€οΈ
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Ooh…thatβs a tough one…but I think the latter is the worst
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Yeah. Haha.
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The latter, definitely. One only realises this when I lived one just looses feelings for you. Going to post something I wrote very soon..
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*a loved one
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